A foreign exchange student from America believes that Singaporean men are the best, praising them for the effort the men put into their relationships.
Published on The Real Singapore, here’s what the confession reads:
Dear The Real Singapore,
I’m an American girl currently studying in SMU who migrated to Singapore, and am currently attached to a Singaporean guy.
I have been in several relationships with western guys.
When I started dating my Singaporean boyfriend, I was completely taken aback by the kindness that he showed me. Even simple things like pulling out my chair for me and walking me to the bus stop.
I NEVER had a boyfriend do things like this for me and when he does these simple things for me it makes me so happy.
In my previous relationships, I was always the person giving.
I would clean, cook and bake, buy presents for my boyfriend, etc. just about everything you can think of for these lazy jerks.
And they would still yell at me, threaten me, tell me I wasn’t good enough or crazy when I asked them why they didn’t appreciate the things I do for them.
I had almost given up on love before I met my Singaporean boyfriend and I had completely given up on the idea that a guy could give me half as much as I am willing to give them.
When I came to Asia to study abroad, I was amazed by the effort that the men here put into their relationships.
The kindness, compassion, and respect they have for women.
I have nothing to say to girls who can’t appreciate how hard working and amazing you all are.
To Singaporean guys that are still single out there or with their demanding Singaporean girlfriends I have one thing to say – Please let me remind you that Singapore is a very small place.
I think some of you should start looking elsewhere for girls that can truly appreciate you.
Mandy K.
First off, we have to congratulate this girl for finding herself a nice guy who isn’t a lazy jerk. While it’s certainly not easy finding someone you love and cherish completely, we really do have to ask if this letter might be fake.
Here’s why we think so:-
Some of the comments at the bottom of the page seemed quite harsh against Singaporean women, claiming them to be pampered. Take a look here:
Secondly, the grammar and use of words doesn’t seem to be up to the standards of American English. Some commentors felt the same way too:
Fake or not, this letter seems to be a good cover-up for the stingy boyfriend who took his girlfriend to Sushi Tei for her birthday. Do you feel Malaysian guys are “the best” too? Tell us your thoughts about the confession letter and let us know if you think it’s fake too!
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