Partying to some people is a form of activity where you just have fun and let loose but to some, partying is deemed as a waste of time. There is some truth to that, because you know, that’s where young immature college guys and attention seeker girls hang out. Whether or not you’re a person who parties, there is one thing that we girls can agree on, is that the type of guys we tend to meet in clubs. Here’s a list of the common type of guys that you will encounter and how to deal with them.
It’s just really inappropriate for men to grope women, moreover when you don’t even know her. All the guy wants is to feel you up, probably on a crowded dance floor while you’re dancing. If this happens, grab his hands, squeeze it and tell him “keep your hands to yourself please!” and walk out from the dance floor.
This is a common norm for most club goers, the overly intoxicated ‘clubber’. There are three types of drunk, the quite drunk, the emotionally disturbed (violent or depressed) and the hyperactive drunk. The best way to deal with these type of drunks is to take a step back if they are too close, or just call security. But look on the bright side, you’ll probably get a free drink and or shot at one point and all you’ve got to do is stand uncomfortably close to him and his friends. He’s so excited over something he’s buying shots for the whole group, and just by space association, that means you.
There will always be that one guy who goes all out, whether it is on the dance floor or at his designated table. This kind of guy is pretty fun to watch, I always get a good laugh out of it. So, if some weird guy starts grinding up against you randomly just push him in another direction, hopefully towards a bouncer.
The Cigarette Leecher
It’s not that we’re being stingy, it’s just that people should get their own cigarettes! If you can spend hundreds of ringgit in a club, what is a box of cigarettes? So what you can do if this happens, you can be nice and pass him a stick or you can trade one stick for a glass of whatever you want.
He usually sits or stands in one corner and stares at you. If a predator starts talking to you and gets a bit insistent about the whole ‘getting with you’ thing, it’s probably best to go find your girls, another group of people or go straight to the bar, get a glass of water and sober up/throw it in his face.
The Nice Guy
This type of guy can be quite tricky, he’ll start up a conversation with you and your friends, he has not asked you for a cigarette and he has not groped you either. Maybe he is just a nice guy after all. But never let your guard down, there are guys who are just cunning sociopaths!