A healthy sex life can lead to healthy well-being. After all, sex gives you an afterglow and a boost of happiness that no drug can give you. So, take your man by the hand and start working on these eight tricks that give you sex life an up-do in a matter of.. twenty-minutes!
1. Start Sexting
Sexting is a great way to start working your way up to a sexy night of fun and pleasure. It’s also a fun way to start teasing your man at the right time of the day to lead up to something mind-blowing later in the night. Keep the texts short and sweet and he should be begging for you tonight!
2. Try A New Position
Although it’s hard to get out of your comfort zone, give your sex life a revamping every few nights by giving new positions a try. You don’t need to buy the Kama Sutra, but the internet is already filled with suggestions. So find one that suits you, or whichever that will give you, him or the both of you most pleasure.
3. Share Your Fantasies
Everytime you have a little ‘wet dream’ or think of something that turns you on, starting writing down you fantasy sex romps in a journal, or make it fast with a computer. Once you have it, share it with your man and tell him (not ask) that you want him to make it happen.
4. Make Your Fantasies Happen
Acting out your fantasies can be a new thing if you’ve never tried it. It’s really got nothing to do with confidence, but just committing to the entire act all together. Yes, you’ll have to Meryl Streep it, but the pay-off will be worth it.
5. Start Investing
Women are becoming more open to sex toys now and it goes to a point where some can’t live without them. There’s no need to be shy about sex toys because no one’s going to judge you for it. A man finds it sexy because it shows that you’re concerned about your ‘well-being’, and a lady who takes care of herself, is always the sexiest. Look into what you what or what you enjoy and start browsing.
6. Watch Porn
Yes, every man’s favorite past-time should now be something that you need to investigate it. There’s no need to be embarrassed about watching pornography. Pornography’s a good way to help you find new ideas or techniques for the bedroom, and hey, if you’re a real trooper, try suggesting that you and your man watch it together. Just keep it simple and don’t venture off into fetishes that’ll make you uncomfortable.
7. Get Some Lingerie
Good lingerie makes a woman feel her best in the bedroom. However, don’t settle for second best. Start investing in some good quality lingerie that gives you the best comfort. Although you’re only wearing it to take it off, it still helps that you get something that makes you feel like a queen. After all, how can you seduce your man if you spend most of your time adjusting your bustier?
8. Take the Lead
A man loves a woman with a little power, and that comes from a little effort to encourage him to want you. Sometimes, channeling a different character can boost the bedroom life by 50% with very little effort. So, put on your new set of lingerie, walk out to the room, and whatever he’s doing, just straddle up to him and take him under your wing.