Men can be more gentile than we perceive them to be, but honesty is something they will truly cherish. No one likes hearing the truth, but telling him the way you feel about certain things will most likely help you both work on your common interests. Telling him how much you enjoy his spaghetti when it’s god-awful could spell bad news – he’ll be more excited to cook it for your more, and when you’re sick of it already, you’ll have a harder time refusing, and exposing the truth. This is also important when it comes to stories of your past. So, be true to yourself – you want to work on your differences and interests together.
Confidence isn’t necessarily a matter of having the guts to wear that mini dress without having second thoughts half-way through the day. It’s about your aura of positivity that gets him attracted to you. Nobody likes a Debbie Downer, so stop beating yourself down with harsh criticism about your weight and how you look. If you have issues involved in this matter, confess to him just how you feel about yourself, and if he’s really in love with you, he’ll do his best to help you work on that. If all else fails, think about that fact that you have him by your side.
3. Be Yourself
If you’re a little goofy, or perhaps even a little less girly than your mother raised you to be, don’t feel compelled to change for him, unless it’s something logical like a health issue. The reason why he’s into you is because of your great personality, and you don’t want to spend the rest of your relationship with him faking your interests. Learn to love yourself by listing down a couple of your best qualities and the things you don’t like about yourself. Work on your best qualities like your spontaneity, and he’ll be sure to fall head over heels in love with you.
4. Optimize Your Looks
Looking too plain, or looking too done-up can be a turn off. Spend a little time to yourself and figure out which are your best features. If it’s your eyes, work on some eye make-up that will enhance your features. Do the same with your cheekbones, or even your lips. Great legs is a no-brainer, but remember not to over-do it with itsy-bitsy shorts. Keep it modest and sexy. Remember, less is more.