Dear, Ms Lipstiq
I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 3 years now – and up until recently, everything was going fine. For the past 6 months, it seems like my boyfriend has lost interest in me. We don’t talk as much anymore and he’ll always cancel on dates because of ‘work’ or other matters. He says he’s just dealing with a lot of things – but he doesn’t even want to tell me what problems he is going through. We used to communicate so well – and now we seem like strangers to each other. I know it is wrong, but i am worried he has someone else. Do you think he could be cheating on me?
You’re assumptions in a situation like this is completely normal. Every girl would feel that her boyfriend was cheating on them if they suddenly go through something like this. The best advice we could give you is to really sit down with your man and talk it out. Tell him how you feel and what you’re worried about. After all, a relationship should be based on communication. That is the key. Once you talk it out – you can clear the air from all the doubts and assumptions in your mind. We’re pretty sure it’s not as bad as what you make of it in your head. We wish you the best of luck and chin up, Sarah!