Marriage, something which is sacred and special to everyone. Every marriage is special as two different hearts becomes one and it is amazing to see how two different people make that commitment to accept each others pros and cons and embark on a a journey together.
Don’t you find it hard to accept the fact that some couples despite being in a marriage for more than 10 years suddenly decides to get a divorce just because one found the other cheating?
According to a research done by Samuel Chin Hsin Chlen in 2008, one of the main reasons couples in Malaysia break is because of infedility.
As a woman, it is hard for us to accept the fact but before jumping into divorce, here are the things which you should consider.
No. 1 : How long has it been going on?
Find out how long has he been doing it. If it happened for the first time and you have been married for more than 14 years with three grown kids, reconsider your decision. It could have been just a one night stand when he was drunk and wasn’t himself and he deserves to be forgiven. But if he has been having an affair for more than 3 years behind your back with one particular woman and decides not to give her up, then you have a valid reason.
No. 2 : Why did it happen?
It would be hard for you to talk to him instantly. Once you have calmed yourself down, you should really find out the actual reason he did it. It could have been your fault as well but he just never knew how to reveal the fact to you. If he gives you a valid reason then you should consider if you would like to work on mending the marriage together.
No. 3 : Are you still in love?
Another factor which you should really consider before letting him go is love. Are you still in love. If you are still deeply in love with him, then you should consider giving a chance as Mother Theresa once said “If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive.”
Make your decision wisely ladies as once he is gone you would never be able to get him back.
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