Are you in love with the guy? Do you think he is marriage material? Did you even say yes when he proposed?
He may say all the right things but as time goes by you start to notice that his actions may not exactly match his words. He assures you that he respects you but does not take your opinions into consideration. He voices out that you both have a say in the relationship but it seems like he is actually the one making all the decisions. He says he loves you for who you are but makes it a big deal to do something that you enjoy.
If you think those are the qualities of a man that you should marry, then you are sorely wrong, ladies. These are in fact behaviours of someone that you most definitely do not want to spend the rest of your life with.