Yes girls, even if your boyfriend says he doesn’t fantasise, he does!
Don’t be alarmed, he isn’t cheating on you or anything, it is just a guy thing. Studies show that 80% of men have sexual fantasies. Here’s the bottom line, sexual fantasies are part of a healthy sex life – it can lead to increased intimacy, trust, communication and satisfaction within the relationship. Some of us are still pretty reserved, so if you’re curious as to what your partner fantasises about, you could always ask. Or you can try out the list we’ve compiled for you. In no particular order, here are the top five sexual fantasies for men.
Submission/Dominatrix
Some men crave to be more of a passive player. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalised, and spanked. This can be arousing for most men, their desires might also merge into fantasies of role playing, exhibitionism, and voyeurism, depending on how you script them. This normally occurs when your man is stressed out from work, and he wants you to take over.
Role Play
This has to be one of the most common sexual fantasies. Role playing can be fun and super kinky at the same time! Think about, patient-nurse, cop-bad girl, teacher-student and the list go on. No matter what the roles, he wants to see his lady looking sexy in a costume and doing naughty things.
Anal Sex
Every guy definitely has fantasies about this, we can bet you every penny we have. You might thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex, but anal sex is a whole different level of satisfaction. For a guy, the tighter the better, oh and the term, the road less taken also applies to this. Guys love what they can’t have on a daily basis. But at the end of the day, you got to be comfortable giving him the green light.
Threesome
Another classic, but not everyone is keen with this one right here. It may sound easy and exciting at the same time but there is more to it than just three strangers having intercourse. First of all, you got to figure out whether this is what he wants and whether you’re comfortable with it, cause there is no going back. The third person could either be an acquaintance/friend or a total stranger — this you get to decide for both of you.
Exhibitionism
Pretty much most men love the adrenaline rush of the idea about having sex in public, and being watched or discovered can fuel men’s sexual desires. You guys should be careful about acting out fantasies. Sex and nudity in public places can lead to serious legal consequences. Plus, living in a smart phone era doesn’t help, unless of course, you plan to be an accidental porn star.
