Dating is never easy and if you’ve been in a failed relationship, it’s only normal to get nervous when getting into a new one. No one can blame you for being obsessed because breakups are hard and painful. Even if you’re the person that ended it. So, if you’ve finally found yourself in the kind of relationship you’ve been looking for then how do you know if that person is ‘the one’, even if he is wonderful and all that. Let me tell you that ‘the one’ exists, it’s not a mythical creature like the Loch Ness Monster.
So, how do you know if you’ve found ‘the one’ and after the honeymoon period is over, how can you be so sure that your partner is the right person for you? Here’s how:
You can speak your mind – If he has upset you and you’re able to tell him why without the entire thing ending up as an argument then it’s a sure sign that your partner has the emotional intelligence you’d want in a soulmate. When you don’t have to keep things all bottled up inside and can talk anything over, that’s when you know you have a happy relationship with someone that’s right for you.
The people in your life approves – See, friends and family are usually there before you meet the love of your life and know you better than anyone else in the world. So, if you have introduced your partner to them and all they can do is agree with your choice, it’s usually a great sign that you have found the one.
You can share your burdens with them – If you have had a bad day at the office or just experience one of those downer days and feel more than comfortable crying to your partner without feeling “crazy” or worrying that he thinks you are, then you’ve probably found a keeper. If your significant other makes you feel better at an instant no matter how minute your worries are, you know you can count on him.
He’s in it to stay – He’s had front row seat to your best and worst times but he is still there. He makes plan for the future with you and is always making sure that “us” is what’s important to him.
He admits that he is human – Nothing is better than dating someone who has their ego in check. If he is not afraid to admit that he’s made a mistake and apologize for it, then you should definitely consider this person as being the one. He is learning and growing with you, that’s a quality you have got to love.
