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Most of us want to whisper the sexiest words of love and passion in the ears of our partner. It’s purely natural and it denotes a deeply ingrained sexual inhibition in men. But here’s the thing – a lot of us are afraid that it might sound a little ‘nasty’ because we’re shy. Somehow men don’t always find dirty talk as puzzling as we do. With the help of Jacqueline Hellyer, author of “Sex Secrets for Busy People” suggested some simple tricks that can help get you started on your path to dirty talking to enhance your relationship.
Gush, Wildly
Men are simple creatures and much like us, they do enjoy hearing compliemtns about their physique. So tell him what you love about his body, and he’ll automatically want to please you more.
Keep it Positive
If either of you says things the other may not find so subtle or attractive, approach it gently. Try saying: “Oh, I don’t really like that word. But I love it when you say…”
Be Responsive
When a guy is doing the talking, a little lusty moaning from his partner is precious reassurance. It’s okay if he wants to ask you if it “feels good”, but the context should never be about him not knowing if you like it or not. So open your mouth, and tell him just what you like and what you’re feeling.
Expand Your Vocabulary
Surprise is the key, so you need to keep pushing the envelope. Repeating the same old words over and over again can get boring, so a little research can help get you on the right track. Yes, 50 Shades of Gray is close enough. So invest in that book and pick up a few lines.
Debrief
Post-sex is an excellent time to talk about what you both liked, what worked, and any issues that might have come up. Though, avoid making it sound like an after-school exam tutorial, and focus on expressing your desires and pleasures. This will get you more acquainted with dirty talking.
Get Creative
Dominance and submission work for some. Others prefer role-playing or erotic poetry. Try out a couple different forms of play to get your desires up and ready for each other.
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