Dear Ms Lipstiq,
I’ve been interested in this guy for awhile now – and we’ve started to hang out together a lot more often. The problem is, i can’t seem to tell if he really likes me or is he sees me as a friend. He constantly sends me the wrong signals. One minute he tells me he loves spending time with me, then after that he cuts me out for days on end. Am i doing something wrong? I don’t understand. Does he like me or is he just playing me? Please help! I don’t know what to do anymore.
Sofia Vee
Dear Sofia,
What you’re going through is the usual chase-and-catch face of a ‘relationship’.. though, you guys are not official, this also helps to stand the ground on how the potential between you both are. He may be acting hot and cold because he is not ready to start anything right now. We would suggest for you to wait it out a little and see how things progess – if after awhile, this continues the happen, the best advice we could give is to stay it straight out. There’s no point of you lingering around when you don’t know if it’s going to happen or not. Is he worth all this trouble? As yourself that.
We hope you find a way to settle this uneasy feeling – it may be hard at first, but it’ll take time to adjust and once you get the closure and reaction you need, you can move forward or move on.
Ms Lipstiq
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