Just as you need affirmations for your daily life, sex affirmations are equally important for a healthy sex life. Sometimes, people tend to lack confidence when it comes to sex, and chanting these affirmations can make a whole lot of difference in your sex life – especially how you look at your body and how accepting you are of your desires. Cause, even though sex needs two people (or three, or five… or 10?), in the end, it can be all about you – whether you want it and whether or not you enjoy it.
Just in case you might need them, here are some positive sex affirmations that are able to boost confidence in your sex life and guarantee you the best shagging moments evah!
1. I EXPLORE AND EMBRACE MY SEXUAL DESIRES
The first step to being more open towards your sex life is to embrace all your sexual desires. When you start accepting your sexual desires and fantasies – no matter how wild they may be – that is when you will start to fully enjoy your sexual escapades. Plus, one should never be ashamed of one’s desires – EVERYONE has kinks, darling!
2. I AM IN CONTROL OF MY SEXUAL THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS
It’s very easy to be swayed away by your sexual thoughts and emotions, they are really strong. But you need to keep in mind that you own those thoughts and feelings, not vice versa. When you are in control of how you think and feel sexually, it is much easier to stay grounded as well, as know your limitations. This tip is especially helpful when you easily get turned on by anyone and anything. Dang – sounds like I gotta recite this affirmation myself.
3. I AM A WALKING SEX GODDESS
Sex appeal (click to read) is amazing and everyone has it. It’s just a matter of embracing and improving your sex appeal. Telling yourself that you exude sexual confidence will not only subconsciously make you believe so, but it will also make you work towards being more sexually upfront and confident. It sort of works like manifestations – but obvi, this is for sex.
4. MY GENITALS ARE ROCKING IT
Believe not only in yourself, woman, but also in your genitals – for they know what’s up. Having faith in your boobies and vajayjay is important, especially before allowing someone else closer to them. Show them love and be confident with how your boobs look or how your vajayjay smells. They’re YOUR genitals and they’re living their best life on your body.
5. I AM IN A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP
Sex without a stable relationship is just plain WRONG, darling! I mean, I guess if you like it that way, then sure, good for you. But frankly speaking, sex without love and understanding is just going to make you feel like you’re in a “friends with benefits” kind of situation. And honestly, that doesn’t feel too good.
You wanna establish a healthy relationship first before committing to sex.
6. PLEASURING MY BODY IS A PRIORITY
Yes, sex does need equal pleasuring from both parties, but it’s also important to prioritise your body. It’s not wrong to focus on pleasing and making your partner in bed happy – but at the same time, you should also consider what pleases you and guarantees sexual happiness on your end.
7. I AM WORTHY OF LOVE
Listen honey, we all love to bang and bounce, but you should never feel like you are only meant for physical happiness. EVERYONE is worthy and in need of love. As a matter of fact, nobody should feel like they are “not worthy” to attain emotional happiness and satisfaction. BISH, who told you that?
Get rid of that nasty thought and start chanting this affirmation every morning before you leave the house. Your day, your mood and your perspectives will change for the better.
8. I AM UNDERSTANDING OF ANOTHER’S SEXUAL INSECURITIES
Just like how we may want our partner to fully understand our sexual insecurities, it’s equally important that we pay heed to theirs as well. Paying attention to each others’ insecurities and figuring how to have a good time despite these insecurities is a big leap to an awesome sexual escapade.
9. I KNOW AND LISTEN TO WHAT MY BODY NEEDS
Above all, what is important is your body and what your body needs. So, whatever the circumstance is, be sure to listen and grant your body everything it asks for. A healthy body leads to a healthy mind. And, if your body and mind are in perfect sync, your sexual life will totes be more enjoyable.
10. I AM WHOEVER I WANT TO BE IN BED, MY BED IS MY SANCTUARY
No matter how insecure or unsafe the outside world may make you feel, it all changes the minute you enter your bedroom and lie on your bed. Your bed is your sanctuary – it’s where you feel safe and secure. It’s that one place where you can totes be yourself without anyone judging you.
So, if there is something or SOMEONE distracting you from being yourself in bed – yeah! He/she needs to leave immediately.
11. I AM ABLE TO RELAX AND FULLY ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE
You may have a million problems, but once it is sex time, throw them all away and focus on the rapture you and your partner are going to experience. When you are in the midst of shagging, there should be nothing else going on in your mind. Take this time to wholeheartedly experience and enjoy the intense pleasure – it’s all part of learning to love yourself more and strengthening your bond with your partner.
12. I ENGAGE IN PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIPS
Just as much as one is passionate about their goals and career, they should be equally passionate about you and whatever that goes on inside the bedroom. Vice versa – if they have a burning desire for everything they wanna do to you in private – they mustn’t lack in their life.
What I’m trying to say is, there should be a healthy balance between the fire in the bedroom and in reality as well.
13. MY PARTNER IS TURNED ON EVERYTIME HE/SHE SEES ME
Confidence, girlfriend! The route to a fantastic shag is believing that you are able to turn on your partner each time you see each other. Holding that much power in your sexual aura can be really beneficial to boost your sexual confidence and make your sex escapades more exciting.
14. I LOVE SURPRISES AND AM OPEN TO EXPERIMENTS
The last thing you want is a boring and predictable sex life. Where is the spark, the energy and the excitement? Sex is no fun when it’s the same old, same old. Twist it up a little, have fun trying new positions and most importantly, have fun experimenting. Ya never know what kinky sh*t you might be into next!
15. MY BODY, MY SANCTUARY
Listen peeps! – your body, your sanctuary. Respect and cherish it and every partner you get along with will do the same. Sure, you may give in to all of their sexual desires and comply with CERTAIN rules your partner might establish in the bedroom – BUT – be sure to never let it get to the point of disrespecting you or your body.
Sex includes respect and dignity. Periodt!
16. MY SEX LIFE IS AWESOME, I’M LOVING EVERY SECOND OF IT
You need to believe that your sex life is fun, amazing and satisfying. Love every second of it and you will start to fall in love with your sexual adventures as well keep craving for more.
17. I ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO SPENDING “BEDTIME” WITH MY PARTNER
There should never be a moment where you find yourself putting off or stalling for time to spend with your partner. Every moment you spend with your significant other MUST be meaningful. Spending time with your partner should be an activity you genuinely need to look forward too. So, if by the end of the day you don’t feel excited to get into bed with your partner – then clearly, there are so many things lacking in your relationship, especially in your sex life.
18. EVERYONE MIGHT BE JEALOUS IF THEY KNEW MY SEX LIFE
The confidence this one phrase gives you is amazing. Of course, you are not going to share ALL of your sexual escapades with your friends and those around you. But to think that one could possibly be envious of how awesome and exciting your sexual journeys are, it just feeds your ego.
19. MY BEHAVIOUR IN BED IS NATURAL AND ADAPTIVE
Your mood in bed will most definitely change. One day, you might be a submissive kitten, and the next, you’re the tiger that is dominating your partner. Whatever it is, just know that mood changes and different behaviours in bed are completely normal and adaptive. You do not need to be ashamed or weirded out by them.
20. I AM THE QUEEN OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION
Wherever you go, if you have great sex appeal, then naturally, heads will turn your way. And that, girlfriend, is something you SHOULD be proud of. Your sexual attraction is so strong, men and women of all ages will totes turn to look where that a$$ be walking. Manifesting this is a healthy practise for your sexual life.
21. MY EYES ARE MAGNETIC
One of the most beautiful features in a person is their eyes, if I do say so myself. I get attracted to the eyes and trust me, this bish can be turned on even by the slightest eye smile. So, chant to yourself every day that your eyes are beautiful, magnetic, charming and – not only the windows to your soul – but the windows to everything else underneath that outfit.
So there ya go folks – 21 positive sex affirmations you should always tell yourself in order to achieve a healthy sex life and to be content with yourself sexually.
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