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Oral sex, blowjob, sucking off, there are just so many ways to describe the act but they all refer to the same thing – sexual pleasure using your mouth. It may sound simple and doable, but it’s more than just inserting it in your mouth and sucking it. Here’s the bottom line girls, majority of the male population love oral sex. There are men who even prefer it over full blown sex. So, if you’re feeling a little more giving on a particular night, we thought we’d give you tips on how to do it well, so you’re satisfied and your man is happy.
So, what is a blowjob? A blowjob is an oral sex act which involves stimulating the penis using the tongue, lips and mouth. And no, there is no blowing involve. One of the reasons why most men love blowjob is because, it gives them an intense sexual sensation. Oh, and most importantly the higher chance of orgasm in a short period of time. We have tips on how to give the best and unforgettable blowjob ever! Trust us, he’ll be begging for more.
Tip 1: Sensitive Parts
If you hardly see your man go weak at the knees, this should do the trick. When giving him a blowjob, the tip is to linger on the parts of his penis that are sensitive – the tip of his penis, his testicles and the secret spot between the testicles and the anus. Another part of the penis you should pay close attention to is around the shaft whether you use your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will definitely get him closer to an ejaculation.
Tip 2: Use Your Hands
Yes, you are allowed and it is advisable to use your hands. Sometimes it can be a mouthful for us girls who have partners with a large penis. That’s when your hand comes into play, what you do is use your hand and your mouth together – which will feel good for any size of penis. One of the most important trick for a smooth experience for both you and your partner is lubricant or spit. The penis should be moist while you move your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he’s really hard. Then add your mouth, taking him in as your hand moves up and down.
Tip 3: Don’t Leave Out Other Areas
Now girls, I know the penis should be the centre of attention but don’t forget the other parts. You must always remember this, oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too. Most men like it when their testicles get a little bit of loving too. Try sucking GENTLY on his testicle one at a time, then move on to lightly smooching his inner thighs, you can also play around with his nipples either with your fingers or your tongue. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). If you do this right, he’ll be under your spell throughout the night.
Tip 4: Hot And Cold
If you have been doing this for years, and you’re quite worried you or your partner might just get bored of it? You can always spice it up, try playing with temperature and sensations. Let’s start it off with temperature, try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swirl it around your mouth and swallow. Then, take your man’s penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same. He will definitely be tingling all over. You can experiment with fizzy drinks or even ice cream! Yum!
Tip 5: Get Saucy
We have girls writing in asking for tips on how to bear the taste while giving a blowjob. And we know it makes oral sex rather less enjoyable. So, while you getting it on, you can add chocolate syrup, whipped cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or you can always get a flavoured lubricant if all else fails.
Tip 6: Gagging
We know that girls can be self concious at times especially when giving a blowjob and something like gagging during oral sex isn’t something to be embarrassed about. Okay, think about it, you’re gagging cause he’s pretty massive and if you actually tell him that he’s the manliest guy, he’ll be getting an enormous ego boost and he’ll love you for. It will be worth it!
Tip 7: Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Better be safe than sorry right? If you have doubts or if you’re unsure about your partner’s sexual past, use a condom! By not using protection you are risking yourself in getting AIDS, hepatitis B, fungal infections and other STDs that can be passed on via oral sex and blowjobs. The most important common thing that people tend to look past is mouth infections. Remember, never give a blowjob when you have a cold sore unless you want to give him herpes!
Tip 8: Go For It
The most important tip we can give you is to be comfortable with the idea of a blowjob and take your time to enjoy it. I know there are some women that are repulsed with the whole idea of giving a blowjob, and it’s okay. Cause remember there’s no point forcing yourself: he’ll feel it if you’re not happy and won’t get as much pleasure out of it. The whole idea is for you to have fun and for your partner to be happy.
Do you have any tips of your own? Do share with us! Oh and tell us whether our tips helped!
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