It’s just human nature to want to have someone to call yours at one point or another – but finding that other half can be a bit of a challenge sometimes. You’ve got to work it the right way in order to find someone that you will be happy with. Of course, these are just some basic steps to getting yourself hooked with a guy – what comes after all these steps is another story.
When girl meets boy – these are some things that you should definitely keep in mind.
1. Have confidence
You’re not going to get anywhere by hiding behind people or in a corner. When you’re uncomfortable, it can be seen despite what you think. So, chin up and shine that confidence. If you are naturally shy then remember the term, ‘fake it til you make it’ – it applies well here. Once you can get his attention, you know you’re going in the right direction.
2. Stay positive
Positive energy is something that will definitely get a guy attracted to you. Who wouldn’t want to spend time with someone who’s always laughing and being positive right? Get comfortable in your own skin and bring out your fun side!
3. It’s all about body language
The way you move your body will determine what kind of person you are. Don’t believe us? If you meet a guy and your eyes meet from across the room, look directly into his eyes for just that extra second (we don’t mean staring – that’ll make you look like a stalker) and add a simple yet gentle smile. This will give him the opportunity to come over and have a little chat with you… Try it!
4. Play hard to get… the right way
Playing hard to get can either go two ways – you either get what you want, or you strike out. You can’t go ignoring him and acting like a snob, you need to at least be on friendly terms with him. Listen to the things he says, and act interested in the conversation. \
5. Look and feel your best
You need to be happy and confident in what you are wearing and how you feel – that’s what is attractive. Don’t put on something if you’re not comfortable in it. It’ll project off of you and you don’t want your potential guy to see that. Make sure you feel good about yourself before stepping out there.
6. Tone down the make-up
As girls, make up has become an essential – it’s part of our daily lives. Some of us put just a little blusher and concealer to get rid of that tired look – but sometimes, girls tend to over-do their make up. There’s no need to cover your eyes in eyeliner – keep it clean and simple. Your features what he wants to see.
7. Don’t act jealous
If you’re already friends with this guy that you want, and you’re acting jealous when it comes to female friends – then you are not going in the right direction. Keep yourself level headed and opened about all his friends, whether female or male. This will show something to him and will also impress him.
8. Read his signs
It’s all about the ‘vibes’ when it comes to meeting a guy. If you’ve been going at it for awhile, and you’re not getting a good buzz from him, then let him go. Signs of him not being interested could include him walking away half way through conversation, ignoring you or just him talking to everyone else but you. Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t interested, and cut your losses and forget him!