You’ve both established that you like each other. You’ve had moments where you catch him staring at you when you’re not looking, and you’re in this position where you want to just grab him by the face and make-out for hours. But here’s the problem – you don’t know how to approach him.
A lot of women are getting bolder when it comes to making the first move, but there’s a good number of us who want to, but just don’t know how. Here are seven simple ways make the your first move towards physical intimacy.
1. Play Damsel in Distress
Things can often go wrong when you’re out. Whether the heel of your shoe has broken, or you need a little help carrying something, get him to help you. A man will be happy to help when a woman in need, so take advantage of that situation when you can. And when he’s helped you, show him some gratitude with a kiss on the lips!
2. Watch a Horror Movie
If he suggests a horror movie or a thriller for a movie date, make use of the situation and clutch at his arm or bury your head under his shoulder when you’re feeling anxious. His instincts as a protector will come immediately, and before you know it, he’ll have his arms around you.
3. Whisper in His Ear
When you’re out in a place that’s a loud like a bar, and you want to talk to him, whisper in his ear in a slightly higher pitch than you usually have. Your voice can do wonders to excite him, and to enhance it a little more, place your hand around his shoulder or neck. It’s a clear yet subtle indication to let him know that you’re attracted to him.
4. Use Your Feet
If you feel that holding hands is a little too cliche or obvious, try something more delicate by inching your feet closer to his, and when you finally feel him, just brush your legs lightly against his. It’s more discreet and he’ll be more than happy to respond.
5. Kiss His Cheeks
A lot of people can’t decide whether a kiss on the cheeks is an indication for something intimate, but if you do it often enough, he’ll definitely get the message. Give him a little peck on the cheek when he says something cute or funny, or better yet, stroke his cheek lightly with your finger.
6. Go Somewhere Romantic
If he suggest a nice place to go to, take a walk and go somewhere romantic. Use this opportunity to engage in as much eye contact and use your body language to let him know that you like him. Clutch his arm as you walk, or if you find a really nice romantic spot, coyly say that it’s a cool make-out spot. Chances are, he might put that claim to the test.
7. Dance Together
Some guys enjoy dancing, some don’t. If the man you like doesn’t really enjoy dancing, just tell him you’re not a great dancer yourself, but you enjoy it and want him to join you. And when he does, try and get as close to him as you can. Look into each other’s eyes and smile. Use this opportunity to lean in for a kiss.
