How long as it been since you’ve had a heart-to-heart with your man? Do you often both end up in long awkward silences in each other’s presence? Perhaps stress or boredom has taken control of your relationship, but remember you can still overcome that problem by openly talking about your emotions or your thoughts on the relationship.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship, so learn to avoid the awkward silences by practicing these tips to communicate effectively!
Take Time to Talk
Time flies when you have so much on your plate, but stresses of everyday life should never get in the way of siting down and talking to your significant other. We don’t mean talking about who needs to pick up the groceries this week, or the why the dishes need cleaning every hour. Instead, take the time out to a restaurant or your favorite cafe, and spend some quality time together. A fresh setting can always get people in the mood to start talking.
Listen to Each Other
There’s a big difference when it comes to hearing and listening. Listening is when you acknowledge what your partner says and you respond, with either words or facial expression. This goes for any situation, and when you’re both having a conversation, make eye contact and give your full attention. Don’t forget that you should also put your cellphone aside too.
Reward Good Behavior
We don’t mean that you treat your husband like a dog, but reward your husband for completing a task by doing something you both enjoy, like dinner or a movie. When it comes to household chores, let your husband pick the chores he’s able to help out with, and remind him that there’s a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. A sexy reward should certainly keep him on his toes!
Don’t Be A Know-it-all
Good communication is all about listening, asking questions and more importantly, not dominating the conversation with your own opinions! We all know how annoying it can be when someone choses to talk over us when you’re trying to express your emotions, so speak after your partner has finished, or speak when he asks for an opinion. Of course, as partners, we’re meant to be companions especially in harsh times, so do offer advice, but just remember that doing all the talking can be counterproductive.
