Not sure if your guy is just clueless or just a plain jerk? Sometimes, guys can do things to us that get us irritated and well, it’s a little hard to deal with. So we’re here to scoop out what really makes him a jerk – and if you’re man does any of these things, you might have to take a few steps back! It’s best to know what kind of guy your dealing with, before things become too serious.
Well, here are some signs that might help you determine what kind of guy he really is.
1. He sucks over the phone
In the era we live in, technology has been a necessity in our everyday lives. Everything is determined by what is put online, or translated through text/phone calls. We barely ever get the face-face moments anymore. So, is your guy being totally unresponsive over the phone? You send him over five messages and he only responds to one, or you call him but he never answers then he pretends he’s been ‘too busy’ to check his phone? Well ladies, this is one of the signs that he is a total jerk. Picking up your phone doesn’t take much work – it surely doesn’t take three days to notice a text message – so no matter what excuses he’s giving you, be sure to take your distance.
2. He doesn’t treat you as a priority
This only applies when you both have been seeing each other for awhile. If you’re dating and he doesn’t seem to make you his first choice, then there is a problem. If he ditches your date because he’s got a football match to watch or leaves your date early to go hang out with his friends, then he obviously doesn’t find you as important as those things. It may seem selfish, but if you do want your relationship to grow, he must set you as his priority.
3. He doesn’t have your back
You’re out with friends, and they deicide to crack a joke about you, does you man laugh along with them or does he defend you? Unfortunately, there are some guys who really don’t know how to act in front of friends – and if he starts laughing along with your friends after a joke made about you – then you have a serious issue. It’s beyond impolite and disrespectful. No matter who you’re with, your man should always be a gentleman infront of you!
4. He needs more time than you
Does he need ‘more time’ to figure out a simple situation when it comes to your relationship? Beware! This might just be a sign that he is trying to avoid anything that has to do with you. It’s simple, if he can’t settle a situation straight up, then he’s not committed into sorting things out with you.
5. He looks at other girls
Now we’re not saying he should have his eyes glue on your 24/7 – after all, boys will be boys – but at least when he’s with you his eyes shouldn’t be wondering. His focus should souly be on you. If his eyes do decide to wonder, it is a clear then it’s best to get up and walk away. You don’t want to waste your time with a man like that.
6. He doesn’t make you part of his life
He never invites you out with his family for dinner? He never lets you hang out with his friends? Opening up is one of the hardest things when it comes to meeting someone new. If you’re both on the road to a relationship, then it’s best to start sharing your personal expereiences with each other. This helps grow the relationship to a deeper level. If your man avoid making any relation to his life with you, then maybe you should take a step back.
