The moment he says this “I am sorry baby can we not do dinner today? I want to see the boys,” you are already hyperventilating and the worst thing which can happen is when you decide to show tantrums.
Many couples go through this argument and it becomes worst when you have to give in all the time. Here are the top 3 ways which you could use to deal with your emotions at that point of time.
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No 1: Think about it rationally
Once you are done talking to him, you may end up sulking the whole day to the entire world. Think about it from a rational perspective. The book which you have been longing to read is just sitting on your desk and collecting dust. Since he is not free, catch up on tasks which you have been longing to complete but just haven’t found the time.
No 2: Give him a positive respond
Easier said then done, but stay calm as those words come flying out from his mouth. Close your eyes and immediately think of a positive respond. When he hears a positive respond, the chances of him being really sorry about this is higher than he getting all angry about what a drama queen you have turned out to be.
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No 3: Talk it out
To some ladies, this is an ongoing problem. Try talking things out with him and rationalizing matters with him. Tell him calmly how you have really missed him and you do not appreciate the fact that he is spending all his free time with the guys. If things still do not work out, then the decision is up to you. Reconsider your relationship if his social life is taking up too much of your energy.
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