There is just something about porn and men that women can never understand. Apparently, even they don’t understand it either. However, at some point in your relationship, you might have asked the golden question “So, do you watch porn?”. If you haven’t, bless your soul, you are a keeper!
Of course, the problem is not asking the question. The issue is the answer to that question. Now we have two camps, the ones that watches it and would stand on the rooftop and scream on top his lungs to declare it. The other is our innocent men. “Porn?! No! Why would i do that?”.
The guy that watches porn and has zero qualms admitting it, well for them it is natural. You love to shop for shoes during year end sales, they watch porn when they are bored. Now, if he has excessive amount of porn on his mobile, his hard drive, his laptop, his dvd collection and the list goes on, THAT is a problem. Yes, we know they think about sex way more frequently than we do. However let’s not forget anything done in excess is an addiction!
If your boyfriend has sworn to all gods that he does not watch porn, we understand if you find it hard to believe. However, there has been cases where they get caught in the act of watching porn, after all the denial! Question is, why lie?
Ok ladies, while we understand your reservation when it comes to porn (for some of us anyway because we know there are a fair share of females that watches and enjoys porn *GASP*) , allow us to convince you, it is nothing to worry about too much. Your problem is most likely be the fact he is helping himself while looking at some hot playmate blonde. Most guys can safely tell you, it is not the women in porn that excited them, it is merely the sexual nature of the act.
In reality, no guy sets aside a specific time to watch porn. It is just something they do when they are bored and you are not around. Mind you, they do not watch it the way they watch a movie, they simply take care of business in 5 minutes and they are pretty much done!
For some men, although they prefer not to, it is easier to just lie and avoid all problems. The notion shared by both gender is that most women always regard it as cheating. Guys however think of it as a guy thing, and it would not be too outrageous to say that maybe they are embarrassed themselves! We did tell you, even they do not understand why they watch porn.
Point is, if your man is watching porn with your knowledge, it only becomes a BIG problem if he is at it a few times a day, neglecting you. If your man is lying, he is probably ashamed. He is not a serial rapist so do not start morphing into Gillian from X-Files. The truth is not out there. The simple reality is , it is just porn to them!
However, if he is watching porn every night while you are in the same room as he is, you might have a bigger problem than just porn.
