I just had to write this, y’all. This bish just realised, from experience of course, that not a lot of people know how to properly spank a woman. Now, if you thought this was going to be a disciplinary article on how to spank your naughty child, you’re dead wrong – and please forget you ever clicked on this. For those of you who came here with the purpose of gaining wisdom on how to treat your woman’s bottom right, welcome, because Miss Vivian is about to school you.
So, I have a girlfriend who likes to spank me each time I pass by her table – and this bish loves to get spanked. BUT – not when it doesn’t hit the spot. Spanking can hurt, but it can also turn 180 degrees sexual when it’s done right. Spanking can make a woman wet, it can be part of foreplay before getting into sex, and it can be something fun and exciting to do even while in the throes of sex. Spanking is an art and only a true man can master this art.
So, if you have been spanking your girl, but she doesn’t get wet and her bottom seems to be red, YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG, SON! Allow me to teach you.
Before we get into the steps of spanking, let’s first discuss how to confront your partner about this.
How Do I Let Him Know?
Spanking is a kink, in a way. And while any couple can just suddenly have sex and discover that the other likes to get spanked, it’s not all that easy for them to get into it if they’ve never discussed the topic. Ladies, if you think getting spanked sexually is embarrassing, don’t be. It is not embarrassing, it is part of sex and just adds to the rapture. Nothing to be embarrassed about.
And men, if your lady wants you to spank her, get into it, bruh! Those hands aren’t there for no reason. It’s time the both of you come clean and confess all your desires in bed to one another. That way, it’s easier to satisfy your partner sexually and understand where the both of you meet, sex-wise.
1. Find The Spot
When I say spot, I mean a place where the both of you may feel comfortable carrying out this activity. It could be on the bed, on the couch, on a chair, in the living room, in the dining room, in the bathroom, over the table…. ANYWHERE, BISH!
The right spot to get spanked in depends on the way you wanna get spanked. Which leads us to the next step.
2. Position
The positions of the spanker, as well as the one getting spanked, are important, because, depending on the position she is in, it can determine whether or not she would be able to reach her high. Of course, it all comes down to the spanking skills of the man, but the body posture of the person getting spanked also plays a role.
Ultimately, there are two ways – one is the bend over knees position and the other is the bend over object position. Other ways may include spanking during doggy-style, or cowgirl, etc.
If you are bent over his knees, place your bottom slightly higher over the knees, and your stomach should rest comfortably along their thighs. If you have back issues, you may choose to do this on the bed, where your elbows and knees are resting on the bed.
3. Foreplay
I think I’ve mentioned this before – making her wet is a task, but once you nail it, da bish gon be flowing. So, before you actually start hitting her bottom, it’s safer to first stimulate her for arousal. Once her pants are slightly soaked, bend her over your knees and ba-da-bing, ba-da-boom!
Kissing, teasing, stroking, rubbing her clitoris – all these can be done before getting to the highlight of the show.
4. Start By Rubbing
Don’t wanna shock that booty now, do we? So, start by rubbing circles on her bottom. Clockwise, and then finish it off with anti-clockwise. You wanna let her skin get used to the feel of your touch. Introduce your palm and fingers to her bottom and gently start patting her bottom. Slow pats can then progress to slightly harsher patting.
At this stage, her pants should be soaked, as her body is accepting what is about to happen and she is anticipating it.
5. Cup Your Palms
Palms flat on the ass is not the way, boy. The palms of your hands should be slightly cupped inwards. Like this:
This is the right hand position when spanking her booty. Cupping the palm of your hands while keeping your fingers together will increase the depth of the sound produced and reduce the stinging. Plus, a booty is not flat, it’s round and fleshy, so cupping your hands while spanking makes more sense to properly grip the booty during each hit.
6. Start Slapping
I mean, there isn’t really a rule to this part. Just start spanking – raise your hand at a preferred distance, with a cupped palm, land a hit on her booty and watch it jiggle. You may start with slightly low-impact hits to really slap the sh*t out of her glutes.
7. Alternate
The key is to never just keep spanking, because where’s the fun in that? Alternate between strokes, hits, grips and squeezes. After a few hits, you may casually rub her bottom in a circular motion, stroke her inner thighs, grip that booty, and squeeze. All these various actions in between spanks are going to increase her arousal and anticipation.
8. Other Actions
For some women, spanking alone isn’t going to lead them anywhere. She needs more, darling! So, in between spanks, stimulate her clitoris, rub her breasts and you may even start fingering her. Spanking + fingering are totes going to result in a Niagara Falls accident on your thighs, boy!
9. Repeat
And there ya have it – once you’ve set the rhythm and pace, all you have to do is repeat. Repeat till your thighs are a mess and till the room is filled with her moans.
Congratulations! You have successfully graduated from the School of Spanks! Now, put the theory into practise and she will want to be spanked every night from now on!
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