And so we’ve heard, that men are for Mars, women are from Venus. Men think with their “uhums” and women think with their mind. But behind that hunky outlining, really lies a mushy sweetheart that only yearns for you love and affection. Here are six things about men that you probably never really knew about!
He Wants Your Undivided Attention
According to marriage therapist Mike Dow, men are evolved to do one thing at a time while filtering out all other stimuli. Women on the other hand, function differently and we have a neck for multitasking, and although he may appreciate that side of you, he hopes for your focus on him solely. In other words, giving him your attention says speaks to him, saying “You are my priority, and I love you”. So, insist on making eye contact while he’s talking and limit any form of interruption. (Source)
He Loves It When You Look Good For Him
Men are wired to respond to visual cues, as opposed to the female mind, but dressing up demonstrates just how much you want to look good for him. Wearing something sexy can indicate just how much you desire him, and according to a study, a red dress is considered to an aphrodisiac to men.
He Loves It When You Compliment Him
Don’t shower him with compliments to boost his ego. Instead, genuinely compliment his looks and strength as it confirms that you admire him. You want your husband to know that think of him as a provider, problem-solver, handyman, and as cheesy as it sounds, your knight-in-shining-armor.
He Needs To Vent
Much like women, men need some space to vent to, but listen to his worries without trying fix them. He doesn’t want you thinking he’s weak, but simply ask him if he wants to let out his frustrations. And after he’s done, tell him that it’ll be okay, and give him a hug. Which leads us to the next secret..
He Likes Long Hugs
Women like to connect verbally, but men are connect better through action, and touch is deemed the most powerful. When you’re about to give him a hug, hold on to each other for more than five seconds. It’s like a spiritual connection to be shared within two people, and who doesn’t love a hug.
He Likes It When You Ask for His Advice
Men are wired to be problem-solvers. So whether it’s asking on how you need to clean up that pesky virus off your laptop or how to step your game up in the workplace, the fact that you seek his advice shows that you rely on him and that he plays a strong role in your life.